Thursday, February 25, 2010

A Visit from the Fox Family

It was so fun having the Fox family here, for almost exactly 24 hours... hey, not much, but I'll take it.  We had such a good time, at least I did, visiting, playing with the kids, and watching my fruit trees get pruned by my wonderful Brother-in-Law, Mr. Fox.  THANK YOU!!!  I love my sister's cute, CUTE hair cut.
I showed the little Fox Kits the Montessori Shelf and taught them how to do the work.  THEY LOVED IT!  Vixen's favorite work was the pom-pom work.  She liked the magnetix too.
Yak wanted to work SO BAD, I had to find something fun for him to do so that he wouldn't get into the other kids work. 
Lemur got a chance to do the pom-pom work when Vixen wasn't.
I was really surprised at Tod's LONG attention span.  He just barely turned 2, and normally 2-year-olds don't stick to one thing very long.  He loved spooning the rocks, and then spent a long, LONG time playing with the magnetix. 


I loved Vixen's version of this story, and so did Lemur and Tod.

Sicko...

We've had the crud around here lately.  Poor Lemur got it first; high fever, cough, runny nose, you know... it sounds like it's everywhere right now.  It was so UNlike Lemur to get his pillow and blanket and lay down on the floor and go to sleep.  Yak got it next along with Monkey.  Bee and Martin also had sore throats, but no fever.  Yak produced a new tooth and then the fever went away, but he is still coughing.  Then Hunter got it pretty bad.  I felt it coming on but made sure I took Vitamin C and D and a multivitamin several times a day, and I didn't get sick.  Who has time to be sick?  I think we are finally on the mend thank goodness!

The Wall

Pretty picture, right?  Yeah, it was the wall in our living room.  When we first moved in (last year on Valentines Day) I was all for taking it down and painting the wall, but Hunter said he really liked it, so we kept it.  The picture actually grew on me.  It is a 10 foot wall, so it sorta dominated our living room.  I would sit on the couch and nurse the baby and while chaos reined around me, I could look at the picture and pretend I was cooking something in that pot over the fire preparing to step into the tent and take a long nap.  I could hear the gurgle of the stream next to me and the flapping of the ducks wings flying by.  I could hear the wind whispering in the trees.  It was a peaceful place that I could step into.  So for Hunter's birthday last year, I got him a picture of the signing of the Declaration of Independence.  We hung it up in the one spot in our living room that was big enough for it - the rest of the living room is pretty much windows.  Then for Christmas I gave Hunter a framed copy of the Declaration of Independence and also a framed copy of the Preamble to the Constitution of the United States.  He really liked them and wanted to hang all of them in our living room.  The only wall that was big enough, was the one with the mural on it.  So... you got it, down came the mural.
Thank goodness the wall paper came off really easy... it only took about 10 washes with lots of water to get all the glue off... and then I was ready to go. 
I haven't really painted any real dark colors before... man, it was hard to get it nice and even.  It took 5 coats to get it looking real good.  I like the finished (almost - still have the moulding to put on) product.  I miss the mural, but I like the warm red and also the display of some of our founding fathers and the delcaration and the constitution.  Hunter whipped up that shelf for me and I love it!  One day I will refinish that pink chair.  It is really comfy so I don't want to get rid of, but PINK?  I mean, really.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Love is in the Air

Here are 6 of our valentines.  The other 2 were in bed.  We sure love our critters!
Most of the critters didn't have school on Friday and Monday, so we had nice long weekend with all 8 critters.  (actually, 3 of them went to their "other" house Friday night to Sunday morning).  Anyway, Friday we made valentine sugar cookies - the best recipe ever (email me if you want the recipe).  Everyone who wanted to, got to decorate cookies and then we took them to some of our favorite valentine families in the ward.  They were really good (I snuck a few before giving them away) but the critters didn't get any, so since Bee and Penguin didn't get any, on  Monday they ended up making another batch so we could have some.
On Sunday morning I made French Donuts and had the table set all pretty for Valentines Breakfast of Scrambled eggs, French donuts, and all the critters got a small box of Russel Stover Chocolates.  Of course they all ate the chocolate for breakfast... but they had eggs too.  I was so busy frying donuts I forgot to take pictures of all the critters enjoying breakfast. 
I used a heart shaped cookie cutter to cut the dough and they turned out really cute.  (again, email me if you want the recipe).
Yak loved the French Donuts, and I ate his chocolates, I guess he'll get them in a random sort of way.  Chocolate milk?  I'll have to eat more chocolate, I guess, because so far, it's not. 
Sunday night we didn't have to take the K-Kritters back so we got to enjoy a leisurely Family Home Evening for the first time in a long time.  We usually do it on Sunday Mornings before church, and yeah, sometimes it gets a little rushed, and we have to wait until after church and dinner to get treat, and that really stinks.  Anyway, our FHE was great.  Penguin gave a nice lesson on love, and I did this little object lesson with candles.  It shows how when 2 people love each other (mom and dad) and they add critters to the Farmily, they love doesn't decrease, it grows and grows and grows and there is plenty for everyone.  The kids loved it... and then had fun trying to "pinch" the flames out when we were done.
Playing Apples-to-Apples
No FHE is complete without a treat.  I made this Valentine cake out of a square (it was actually 2 rectangle cakes because my square cake pan broke, thank you Lemur) and a circle.  It is frosted with a cream cheese/powdered sugar/whipped cream topping with strawberries and glaze... it is soooo yummy.   It was a nice Valentines Day, nice to have everyone home!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Family

Bass was baptized on Saturday, February 6, 2010 by Tortoise.  It was a really nice baptism.  We were sad that Hunter couldn't be with us on Saturday because of work.  We had a good time at the Fish Family's Pond celebrating Bass and Bull Trout's birthdays which are 6 days shy of 4 years apart.  We got in on some of the Birthday Party Saturday afternoon, went to the baptism, then back to the Fish Family Pond for dinner.
Of course most of these critters are ours, but Hunter's sister was there with her 5 kids whom we haven't seen in a few years, so that was fun. 
2 of Hunter's sisters. 
Hunter is working midnight to 8:00 a.m. this week and it really stinks!!  He is having a hard time getting enough sleep.  He is doing a 7 day well test and 3 guys are splitting 3 shifts each day.  He just got stuck with the night shift.  Oh well, we are very thankful that he has a job.  So he gets home at 9:00 a.m. and sleeps for as long as Lemur will let him (yesterday I had put Lemur down for a nap, went to check on him a while later and he wasn't in his bed.  I went downstairs and found Hunter and Lemur snuggled up together in Steelhead's bed, it was very cute.  Anyway, after Hunter gets a few hours of sleep, he has been doing some projects around the house.  Yesterday it was some spring clean up!  I looked out the window and saw Lemur headed out to see what Hunter was up to.... in Hunters big snow packs.  They went all the way up to his hips, making it super hard for him to walk. 
It was so hillarious watching him walk.  He had to throw his leg out in front of him and angle the boot just right so it wouldn't get caught on the other boot.  It was just so dang funny... maybe you had to be there, but it still makes me laugh just thinking about it.

Montessori Moment

Felt book. The pieces are in pockets in-between the pages.  It was a little to frustrating for Lemur to get the pieces out, so I ended up putting a wicker basket on the tray with the book, with the little pieces in the basket.  That worked better.
Lacing Cards.  Everyone has these, right?  Just don't put all of them out at once.  Sometimes less is more.  This is really good for fine motor development.
This is a little wooden village that I've kept for about 10 years.  Grandma Panda brought it for Martin from one of her trips to somewhere in the world, I can't remember exactly where right now.  I've kept it together in a set because it's so cute and I knew it would get lost.  Now is a good time to pull it out - where Lemur can use it in a controlled environment and the pieces won't get lost.
This is a plastic puzzle that goes together easily and makes a "road" for the dinosaur or plane to drive on.  Lemur has had fun figuring out how to put it together AND how to wind up the dino and plane.
The cylinder shape toy that everyone has.  Great for learning square, circle and triangle, as well as colors.
A left-to-right transferring work.  Again, pretty smooth rocks that for some reason young children love.  Found the tiny ladle at the $$ store along with the pretty plastic bowls.

Friday, February 5, 2010

Raw Talent

Just wanted everyone to know that my sister now has a website that you can visit to see her drawings and BUY STUFF if you want too.  She's really talented; go check out her website!

http://www.jacustomportraits.intuitwebsites.com/

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Our Montessori Shelf

I am so excited!!!  I could feel it coming, Lemur was ready to start doing some Montessori Work.  My work schedule has changed a little bit and I'm having to work while the kids are awake right now... and that has NOT been going very well.  I decided to make a Montessori Shelf, Zookeeper style, to keep Lemur busy while I was working.  Most of the "work" I made for Lemur, I found around the house.  We did make a trip to the $$ Store and got some trays, baskets, and a few things like beads, rocks, pom-poms and some small spoons and scoops.  I set everything up and introduced the work to Lemur one at a time.  At first I only had 4 "works" on the shelf.  Sometimes too many choices are overwhelming to small children and I wanted this to be exciting, fun, and just a WOW experience for Lemur.  AND IT WAS!  And it has been, and it still is!  SO:  If you want to make a Montessori Shelf, _________(insert your name) style, here are some ideas.
1.  Choose a shelf that is your childs size.  I found a shelf at the thrift store that was really cute, clean, nice... and 8 feet tall.  Lemur may have been able to reach the bottom 2 shelves.  So that didn't work.  If you can't find a shelf, cinder blocks and boards would work great.  I remember my mom painted cinder blocks yellow and painted the wood white, I think, and it made for a very cheery shelf.

2.  Collect baskets, trays and containers to put the work on.  It helps contain the work and makes it easy for the young child to carry to his work place.  Montessori liked to use natural material: Bowls made out of wood, wooden trays, baskets made out of reeds, wooden spoons... I went for some natural material that I had around the house, but I also went for inexpensive plastic baskets, trays and metal pans.  Use what ever works best for you.

3.  Choose work to put out for your child.  Most of the "work" that I set out for Lemur I had around the house, and I bet you will too:  Mr. Potato Head, puzzles, stacking blocks, necklace beads, interlocking blocks etc.  There is magic in the presentation, I tell ya.  Toys that have been laying around your childs bedroom for months, things that have gone unnoticed in the bottom of the toy box, and sets that are scattered throughout the house, suddenly hold a magical appeal when presented to the child in a flashy basket, on a tray, or in crystal clear bowls, along with a funny looking child-sized ladle.

4.  Present the work to your child.  This is REALLY where the magic happens.  I was so excited to show Lemur his Montessori work, but I knew that timing was everything.  I couldn't do it when the other 6 or 7 kids were around.  I couldn't do it right before his naptime, I couldn't do it before everything was ready, AND I didn't want him to watch me put it together, or he would get into the work and not do it "the right way."  SO:  I worked on the shelf for a few days while Lemur was napping.  I got the 4 works set out that I wanted to show him first, THEN, we were ready.  I had kept the shelf covered with a sheet, and surprisingly, he didn't get into it.  I took him over to the shelf, and in an almost whisper-suspenseful voice I said, "come here, I want to show you something."  We walked over to the shelf and I took the sheet off and said, "wowwwww."  He looked and said, "wowwwww."  Then I told him, in that same quiet voice, "this is your work!  Watch."  I took a tray and went over to his little table.  He followed me and sat down.  Without saying anything, I showed him how to do the work - it was a spooning transferring work.  I did a few times, then handed him the spoon.  He did it just like I had, and I said, "wowwwww."  He did it some more with a super excited look on his face.  When I could tell he was done, I said, "always put your work away when you are done, " then I carried the tray over to the shelf and put it back where it came from.  "Do you want to choose a work now?"  I asked.  He nodded and, just like I had done, chose a tray and took it over to his little table.  I backed off and just watched him, directing when he needed it, letting him explore when he didn't.  He rememberd to put his work away when he was done, and chose another work without me saying anything.  The first few days I was close by to watch him and "train" him.  I added more work until the shelf was full.  Some of the work doesn't need explaining.  What I did have to work on was doing one work at a time, keeping his work on his work space, and putting the work away before he chose another work. 

5.  Know when to stop.  I only let Lemur work when I am working now.  I want to keep the element of WOW in this, and keep him excited about it.  If it is "open" all the time, the newness will wear off. 

Here are some examples of work Lemur has done in the past week.
Wooden puzzles are awesome.  Be careful not to get ones that are too hard for your childs age.  This one was a bit too challenging so I put it away and got a more simple one out.
This was just an odd container I found, and ice cube tray, and some pretty rocks we got at the dollar store.  The purpose:  Fine motor skills, concentration, and naming colors.  I always have Lemur put the work back the way he found it, so the next time he chooses it, it will be ready to go again.
Small glass bowl, (if it breaks, oh well), salad tongs, paint pallet.  Use the tongs to transfer the pom poms to each little spot on the pallet.  Purpose:  Fine motor, left to right movement (pre-reading), color identification.
Plastic bowl, metal tray, magnets.  It's just fun to play with magnets!! These happen to be sea creatures. Any magnet will work.
Mr. Potato Head.  Just for fun and creativity!
Wooden bowl, metal tray, glass bowl, pretty rocks.  Purpose:  Transferring work, left-to-right movement; pre-reading, concentration.  There is something about pretty rocks that 2-year-olds love, and we're not saying "no, no, no!" this time.  Sometimes Lemur uses his hands, and that's okay too.  The rocks are a good sensorial exercise, they are hard, smooth and cool. 
Blocks.  I have already modified this for Lemur, but he liked this too.  He just put the blocks in the container... and of course rattled and shook them.  Now I have the shapes cyllinder - you know, the one with a square, circle and triangle and you put them in the lid with the shapes cut out of the top?  Yeah, that one, he likes it too, and it's a good challenge for him.
When we are done with work time, the shelf is closed.  Lemur has tried to get into it a few times (and so have the other kids) but I'm just firm about it and tell him (and the other kids) that they can do work ________ (whenever that may be).

SO:  There are some ideas for you.  I will try and take pictures of the work I put out for Lemur so you can have more ideas.  Mostly, just start looking around for odds and ends that you could turn into "work" for your child.  Collect sets of toys that you bought and forgot about and have pieces strewn about the house.  Think of things - whatever your childs interests are and abilities are - and come up with your own creative ideas... and then share them with me!  I will eventually put out things like crayons, paper, markers etc.  I'm trying to figure out a creative way to present them because they are all around him during the day.  I've got to reach back into my clouded memory to my Montessori Days of teaching 2 and 3-year-olds and try and remember what we did.  Have fun, be creative, be firm, be consistent.

Hard at Work... and lovin' it!

Using a work rug serves the purpose of keeping the work in a confined area.  You can try it - if there is no work rug, the pieces get scattered all over the place.  Just a little bit of training goes a long ways.  I don't get mad and yell when he puts the work off the rug, I just say, "work stays on the rug."  He is totally happy to comply, and if he doesn't, we (usually me by myself because he's throwing a fit, which I ignore) put the work away and he can try again another time.  I then direct him to another work choice.
You can tell by the look on his face, that Lemur thinks this is just SO COOL!
See, this isn't just for 2 and 3-year-olds!  Elk calf #4 is 6 years old and loved doing Lemur's work while she spent the day with us. (I didn't get pictures, but Elk Calf #3 also did some of the work and he's 11...shhhh.. don't tell.)
A matching work. 
Some work is "a 2 person work."  Most of the work is designed for just one person, but sometimes 2 people can work together on the same thing.  Elk Calf #4 and Lemur had fun with the Mr. Potato head work.
What silly faces!!


A child size table is another great place to work.  Those are the only 2 places I let him do his work, the small table and the work rug.  When it gets warmer outside, I will probably set up the small picnic table out on the deck and let Lemur do water work out there.
Lemur has been good to put the work away when he is done.  If he forgets, I just remind him, "we put our work away when we're done."  Sometimes he gets two works out at once and again, I remind him, "we just do one work at a time."  I have found that using a very soft, almost whisper voice, works best.  It makes a kind of "magical atmosphere" and Lemur gets excited about whatever I am talking about and generaly complies with my request.  If he doesn't, we pack up the work together and put it away.  (Even amist crying and fit throwing because now he wants to do it the way I told him to - but we can try again later)
There isn't always just one way to do a work.  Part of the fun of this work is exploring.  Lemur poured this work...
and used the spoon to transfer the tiny red bells.  We put the work away when he put them in his mouth.  I just told him, "this work doesn't go in your mouth" and I put the work away.  He tried the work later and did not put the bells in his mouth, for which I said to him - "you did that work just right this time!"  It doesn't take children very long at all to figure out what they can do and what they can't do... what you let them get away with, and what you don't.  When I am firm and follow through with what I say our work time goes very smoothly and both of us enjoy it.  I have found that children really do like boundaries.  They will push and stretch and watch and see what they can get away with, but really, they like you to help them stay in the boundaries that you have set.